Learn How To Flirt

April 27th, 2012

Flirting is definitely a skill that every woman should have. When you set your sights on a good looking guy you’ve got to know how to do a little flirting to let him know you are interested. Knowing how to flirt with a guy that you’re interested in will save you from possibly losing out on a potentially great relationship. Here are some useful flirting tips which will help you learn how to make a guy fall in love with you.


1) ~ Wear Something That Makes You Feel Good

Flirting is about attitude. You want to make sure you feel great about yourself so wear something that makes you feel fun and sexy. You’ve got to feel “comfortable” in it too! When trying to make a guy fall in love with you, you don’t want to go outside of your comfort zone, as you will just end up feeling self conscious the whole time.

2) ~ Be Yourself

Relax and a smile and joke around. Uptight energy is awful to be around so you don’t want to be giving any of that off. Don’t worry about how you look or being perfect. It will only make you awkward and weird.

3) ~ Touch Him First

It is a little easier for a girl to get away with lightly touching a guy first rather than the other way around. You could lightly rub up against him or touch his arm lightly while talking. It doesn’t have to be a big deal. Adjusting a piece of his clothing is another subtle way to cross over this touching barrier. Just don’t wait for him to make the first move here.

4) ~ Sincere compliments.

Everyone loves to get a compliment especially the guy that you are showing attention to. Just make sure when you compliment him that it is sincere or he will see right through you.

5) ~ Be confident and positive.

Don’t cross your arms in front of your body. This is a real disconnect. Make sure you face him while talking and lean toward him a little. Making eye contact and smiling will go a long way in making him and you feel comfortable.

When you know how to flirt with a guy you can have a lot of fun and enjoy the process of meeting men rather than be intimidated by it. Most of it starts with you and feeling good about yourself and who you are. Men are attracted to confidence. It is not all about being the most physically attractive person out there. All these factors will contribute to making a guy fall in love with you.

Now that you are knowledgeable about some key tips on how to flirt with a guy, go out there and have some fun! The whole experience should be exciting, fun and intriguing – don’t let the little things get in the way and focus on getting to know the guy and evaluating if he’s a great fit for you and your lifestyle. Who knows? He could be the one!


  1. Jen
    September 3rd, 2011 at 00:41 | #1

    Great article! I agree that being yourself is important, you want a guy to fall in love with YOU not who you were pretending to be. I think its also good to mention that the compliments have to be sincere but also dont over do it, it will look like you are trying to hard!

  2. September 3rd, 2011 at 01:09 | #2

    Well for me flirting would always be part of starting a relationship. If women would keep themselves naive and always pretend to hate the opposite sex, they would definitely not have a partner in the future. Guys are not always willing to follow you nor sacrifice their ego just to please you. It is going to be a give and take process. Your flirting tips are all but true and i guess would be very effective.

  3. September 3rd, 2011 at 02:41 | #3

    Really good and nice tips in the post. Any beautiful girl would attract some men, but making them fall in love with you is quite difficult. Since I am a guy, I know implementing the above steps would make the guy you want,love you!! Great Post

  4. Thomas Cruz
    September 3rd, 2011 at 03:19 | #4

    This really interests me a lot. Knowing what a woman does, and understanding how they do something like these things mentioned above to make a man fall in love without being outrageously wild, I cannot help but give all praises. As for the author of this, I really give my thumbs up for a well researched piece of work.

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