An Overview

May 2nd, 2012

Need some help on how to make a guy fall in love with you? Well, you’ve come to the right place. There are some key things you need to know to entrap (umm, catch) that guy you’ve been eyeing. You have to be willing to go that extra mile, so pay attention. Come on board for a course in love.

Tricks of the Trade:

There are tricks to getting that guy to fall in love with you. Here are the main ones:

  • Find out what your guy really wants and needs – learn about him and his interests
  • Be confident – if he knows you’re comfortable with yourself, you can be comfortable with him
  • Make some moves of your own – men like the chase but they like a woman to show her interest as well
  • Show the real “you,” the whole “you” – you’re a whole person, so show it
  • Have fun with it! – men like a woman they can have fun with so show it!


Of course, there are some things you should never do if you want to catch your soul mate. Don’t be too clingy; this is one of the top things that will turn him off. Show him that while you want him, your whole life isn’t wrapped up in him.

Don’t be too demanding. Don’t demand that he must do this or say that or buy this to win your heart, let him follow his instincts. Don’t be afraid to express your feelings. Your guy needs to know that you’re ready for that big plunge of love.

Now for those of you in a hurry, here’s a quick checklist of don’ts:

  • Don’t be too clingy.
  • Don’t be too demanding.
  • Don’t be afraid to express your feelings.

How to make a guy fall in love with you -What a Guy Wants

To break it down some more, you can follow this mini dating guide on what men really want:

  • Men don’t want desperate women.
  • Men want a woman who is confident in herself.
  • Men want space.
  • Men want a woman who listens to them.

Now, let’s explore the complex mind of man. Men can see a desperate woman and does the thing that naturally comes to mind—run! Confidence is contagious and if he senses confidence in you, he’ll want to catch you.

Don’t be shy; show the real you. Give him some space. That should be a no-brainer but too many women don’t understand that a man doesn’t want you hanging on him every second of the day. You want him to listen to you, right? Right, so reciprocate the favor. Now, you have all the tools on how to make a man fall in love with you. Go get him!

Now if you want to leave no stones unturned in learning the real tricks, our mini guide can help you a great deal. We have spoken to many relationship experts on different tactics that can help you get him in your life right away and say goodbye to questions like- how to make a guy fall in love with you.

  1. pankaj garg
    September 2nd, 2011 at 18:15 | #1

    There was a book with the same name. I guess these tips help a lot in starting a relationship but even help in the personality development. To get in an relationship it is very important to know the difference between the two sexes.

  2. Marpen Nep
    September 2nd, 2011 at 18:29 | #2

    Interesting article. Agree with you about “don’t want desperate and confident” part. Can we have a “how to make a girl in love with you” article …uhmmm :D

  3. shahidkhan9551
    September 2nd, 2011 at 18:38 | #3

    WOW! what a great article that is. It is written assuming the psychology of the men. As being a man I like the way the writer has described the mind of men and how to get the attention of the men. I like this article very much.

  4. September 2nd, 2011 at 19:07 | #4

    The article writer is too good to be a love guru but unfortunately i belive all trick is useless.
    If any one really love some one she(as it mention about women here) will not apply any of the method above. She rather going with those formula explained here will get heart to belive if the guy will love me or not. If you force any one by either mean the relation will not live longer.

  5. Srjac
    September 2nd, 2011 at 19:10 | #5

    There may be so many alternatives. Be courteous and reserved. Give the first preference and listen to him first, Pay attention to what he says. Be charming and cheerful and warm hearted. Show concern and interest. Ask him whether you can do something for him. Watch his looks and movements. If his option is for you, first test him, hide yourself from him, if he searches for you then show your warmth and affection. You do not be the first to fall over him

  6. September 2nd, 2011 at 22:18 | #6

    If you want to make a guy fall in love with you, it is very important to know what you want, what you are looking for. If you know that you should try to find out his likes. Next you can ask yourself if this is the kind of guy you want to be with. If you don’t do that you might end up with a person who only sees you as a great housekeeper and cook or a subsitute for his mother.
    Men love it if you give them all your attention, tell them how great they are, it’s not sure they will do that to you too.
    If you are easy to get they will easily dump you too, so it’s a good advice to say your world is not all about him and you do have your own life. The rest of the info is clear. I think most of us do that. I do miss the part about how to get his attention and how to make him fall in love with you. The biggest part of what is written about is: How to keep the guy.

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